Written
By: Jenne
Have
you ever thought about putting on a personal strip tease show
for your lover? Most women I've talked to have at one stage or
another thought of the idea or fantasized about it. A striptease
is a great way to show your partner just how sexy you think you
are, and trust me when I say they will likely agree.
Many
women have body image problems, me included. Stripping can be
a great way to overcome some of these issues, but a great strip
show doesn't normally just happen. It requires some planning.
I'll guide you through those stages and hopefully give you some
tips you can use to blow your partners socks off!
A
great strip show starts at the planning stage. Let's face it,
there is nothing like an impromptu strip show to get your partner’s
blood pumping. For most of us, we need to ease our way into something
new. One thing I normally like to do is plan ahead at least a
little when I'm thinking of doing something like this. Sometimes
the planning can actually be half the fun!
Step
1: Preparation
All great strip teases need music and that should be your first
stopping point. Try to pick something that has a slowish tempo,
which allows you more time to tease and please. This is not the
time to drag out that Megadeath. It just won't have the same effect.
One of my favorite soundtracks to strip to is "Nine and a
Half Weeks." Any sexy, slow, sultry music that allows you
time to reveal all is fine though. The idea here is to really
tease after all.
Now
when it comes to what to wear, I have one really important bit
of advice: LAYERS! Choose something you feel comfortable in but
remember this is fantasyland as well, so you can be anything you
want to be, from schoolgirl to Las Vegas showgirl. Start with
your choice of lingerie and work your way outwards as you plan
your outfit. You don't have to spend a fortune to get the right
look either. Take a look around your closet, improvise and you'll
likely be surprised what you can come up with. One thing I sometimes
do, is to visit my local fancy dress shop. You can hire a costume
relatively cheaply for that special night and really spice things
up. [Just make sure you return it without stains -))
Every
girl knows that accessories make or break an outfit, so don't
forget them when you’re planning that special night. Ties,
long necklaces, and gloves can really add to the overall effect
and make for perfect teasing items. Shoes are also important.
One thing I learnt early on was that stiletto heels are a bitch
to dance in if your not used to them. Make sure you can actually
move without falling over in whatever shoes you choose to wear!
You can also add hats into this category. Really, the sky and
your imagination are the only limits.
Step
2: Practice
As the saying goes practice makes perfect! Remember you're not
auditioning for "Flash dance" here. Fancy moves are
not needed. This is more an exercise to boost confidence and making
sure you can actually dance in those shoes you picked-)) Put on
your shoes and simply start to move to the music you've chosen.
Get comfortable with how it feels, then practice with the costume
you've chosen and make sure you can actually remove it easily,
again without breaking your neck.
Step
3: Showtime!
Remember this is fun!! Understand you will most likely feel awkward
and nervous when you first start out. That's natural. But just
remind yourself you are sexy, you are desirable, and you're going
to let your partner in on that fact.
Something
that I found helped when I first started was to dim the lights
in the room. No, don't turn them off!! If you have to turn the
lights off due to lack of a dimmer switch, light lots of candles.
Now start the music and let your partner see and experience the
erotic delights stripping has to offer both of you.
Start
small and wait till you've gotten into the music a little. Just
sway seductively for a few minutes until you pick up the beat
and it's time to start actually removing your clothes. Keep eye
contact with your partner, but you can turn around, shake your
booty in your partners face and anything else you feel like doing.
Once you’re comfortable then it's time to move onto the better
stuff.
Again
go slow, remember it’s called a strip tease, and the emphasis
should be on the tease. Take that long glove your wearing off
- slowly. Maybe you could move round to your partner’s side
and slowly and seductively drop the glove into his lap. Move onto
whatever you want next, just make sure the last thing you remove
are your stockings [don't tell me you forgot about them!] and
your shoes. Keep these on till you’re down to your underwear
as they add to the overall visual effect.
Flash
your breasts at your partner. Spin around and show him glimpses
and yet never quite a full show until you’re ready. Do the
same with your skirt. Flip it up so they get a glimpse of your
panties. Make him wait. Remember, you are in control. Tease!
Once
you’re down to your undies, let you partner’s eyes linger
on them for a few moments, before moving on to slowly, tantalizingly
beginning to remove your shoes and stockings. If you kick off
your shoes be careful. I once put a little to much effort into
the kick and lost a treasured ornament in the process and managed
to kill the mood.
If
you're really getting into this and so is your partner (which
is the point of the exercise), then now is the time to go over
and give him that lap dance you've always wanted to try on someone.
Or you could simply head for the bedroom, remembering to blow
out the canes as you go!
Products To Help You Tease:
There are several products on the market that can help you learn
the moves you need to help turn up the heat:
Erotic
Strip Dance DVD for example features a wonderful cd full
of seductive music, but best of all it gives strip by step moves
for you to learn.
Peek
A Boo Poll: If you're looking for a way to take teasing
to the next level you might want to try this kit that is designed
to allow you to pole dance in the privacy of your own home. Best
of all you don't even need to screw the pole to the cieling with
this kit.
Costume
Ideas: If you're stuck for ideas when it comes to costumes,
Wicked
Temptations offers a host of fantasy costumes designed
to get someone hot under the collar.
Like
anything else in life the first time is always the hardest. But
the only way to get over the nervousness is to actually get out
there and try it! So, what are you waiting for?
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