Written By:
C. Michael Smith
I've
always been entertained and amazed by facts and figures. They
can be fun as well as educational. Keeping this in mind, I wanted
to start a new series of articles to help promote education in
specific areas. I am going to call them 'Learning Points' and
as long as you find them useful, interesting, and informative,
then I will continue the series into other topic areas, as well.
Learning Points will be a collection of facts, figures, and little-known
tidbits about the featured topic. This month, we are focusing
on orgasms here at Clitical, so I thought I'd start with this
topic. So, here you go. Here's everything you've ever wanted to
know about orgasms - and then some! But first, a word about statistics
in general.
Statistics
are great fun and can be very informative, but just be sure to keep
them in the proper perspective, ok? The fact of the matter is that
there is a large range of behaviors and activities that can be considered
"normal", even if they are not the statistical norm. These
figures don't define what is normal, only what is average. Don't
use statistics as a measuring tool with which to gauge yourself
or your performance. Keep in mind that for any given average, there
have to be numbers that are higher and lower than the average, for
it to be called an average. No one is average across the board.
Keep in mind that the statistically average person has one testicle
and half of a vagina. What's "normal" or "average"
for one person may not be normal or average for everyone. Also keep
in mind that all orgasms are unique, so while it can be fun and
informational to read through this information, just remember not
to let any fact, figure, or statistic define YOUR orgasm, ok?
That
being said, let's take a close look at some fun facts about orgasms.
These statistics come from a wide variety of studies, surveys, and
sources and the numbers may vary widely from one source to the next.
Also, remember that the respondents to these surveys and studies
may vary widely by age, marital status, etc
, so the applicability
of these statistics to your own life may be limited. In any case,
they can still be a lot of fun and offer some insight into orgasms
and the sexual practices of others.
"
It takes 116 muscles to climax and only 17 muscles to smile.
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During orgasm, the heart averages 140 beats per minute.
The average resting heart rate for a man is around 70 beats per
minute. The average resting heart rate for a woman is around 75
beats per minute.
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During orgasm, the first several orgasmic contractions occur at
intervals of 1 every .8 seconds for both males and females. As orgasm
continues, the contractions diminish in intensity and duration,
and occur at less frequent intervals. Some people feel that since
the rhythmic orgasmic contraction rate for women (and men, too)
is .8 seconds, the rhythm of cunnilingus is best paced to this beat
- one tongue stroke every .8 seconds. Try it! See if they are right.
"
Average duration of orgasm (male): 3-5 seconds.
" Average duration of orgasm (female): 5-8 seconds
"
Average number of orgasmic contractions (male): 4-6
" Average number of orgasmic contractions (female): 6-10
"
The record for most orgasms enjoyed by a woman in 1 hour: 134
" The record for most ejaculatory orgasms in 1 hour for a man:
16
"
Longest recorded single orgasm: 43 seconds with 25 consecutive contractions.
"
Orgasms can be powerful painkillers due to the release on endorphins
in the body.
"
It is normal for a baby to experience orgasm in the first weeks
of life.
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Percentage of people who orgasm every time they have sex:
Men: 75
Women: 29
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If you have never had an orgasm, it's more likely due to the fact
that you don't know how, rather than because you can't.
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Intercourse isn't the primary way to achieve orgasm for most women.
Only around 30% can orgasm this way. Most women need additional
stimulation, such as clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.
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When it comes to having orgasms:
42% of women usually have orgasms during sex with their partner.
29% always have an orgasm during sex.
25% sometimes or rarely have orgasms.
4% of women in America are not orgasmic with their partner.
"
Average Age of First Orgasm (Females):
Age 1-5, 4%
Age 6-10, 12%
Age 11-13, 13%
Age 14-16, 18%
Age 17-19, 22%
Age 20-24, 21%
Age 25-30, 8%
Age 31-50, 2%
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Both men and women are more likely to experience their first orgasm
through masturbation.
"
5% of women say they can achieve orgasm through fantasy, nipple
stimulation or by simply squeezing their legs together.
"
40% of women report sex dreams that result in orgasm.
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One study found that only 7.7 percent of women whose lovers spent
21 minutes or longer on foreplay failed to reach orgasm.
"
When asked, "How often do you fake orgasm?" in an online
poll, 1500 women answered:
I never fake it: 45%
1%-25% of the time: 34%
26%-50% of the time: 10%
51%-75% of the time: 7%
76%-100% of the time: 4%
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Average time to orgasm (female): Females in a sexual study averaged
a little less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm during masturbation,
though for intercourse it took anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes.
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How often does masturbation lead to orgasm in females?
95% of masturbation sessions result in orgasm.
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While approximately 30% of women have experienced a multiple orgasm,
only about 10% do so regularly (regardless of age).
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There are several types of multiple orgasms:
o Compound Singles - Each orgasm is distinct and separated by at
least a partial return to the resolution phase.
o Sequential Multiples - Orgasms occur just minutes apart with minimal
reduction in arousal between them. An example of this type of multiple
is if you have a clitoral orgasm from oral sex followed by a vaginal
penetration orgasm from intercourse, all in the same session.
o Serial Multiples - Several orgasms separated by mere seconds or
minutes (at most) with no reduction of arousal. Some ladies have
this type of multiple as one long orgasm with spasms of varying
intensity and degree.
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Does it matter who orgasms first? Only if you're trying to conceive,
according to a British study. Women who climax somewhere between
1 minute before and 45 minutes after their partner's ejaculation
retain 70%-80% of his sperm. Women who orgasm more than one minute
before their partner retain less than 50% of his sperm.
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Most guys haven't a clue when their partner is having an orgasm.
"
The "average" single guy lasts 7 minutes during intercourse
before orgasm.
" The "average" married guy lasts 14 minutes during
intercourse before orgasm.
" Most men can only sustain active thrusting during intercourse
for an average of 2 minutes before reaching climax.
"
Sexologists estimate that at any given second in the U.S., approximately
800 men are experiencing orgasm.
"
For some men, orgasm continues even after the ejaculation has stopped.
So, keep this in mind the next time you are pleasuring your man
with your hand or mouth. Don't stop just because the ejaculation
has stopped. Ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing and they
may not overlap entirely. Ask your man.
"
A man doesn't have to have an erection to have an orgasm. They can
have what's called a softgasm, an orgasm and ejaculation without
an erection.
"
After his first orgasm, the average guy is ready for action again
in around 30 minutes.
" 18 year-olds averaged only 15 minutes, while 60 year-olds
averaged 20 hours.
"
Having orgasms during lovemaking literally helps to build intimacy.
During orgasm, the chemical oxytocin (nicknamed the "cuddling
hormone") is released in the brain and brings about feelings
of closeness and bonding.
"
It is not generally known, but according to some experts, there
are several types of female orgasms that are completely different
from each other in that they originate from different sources, are
supplied sensation by different nerves, and have different levels
of intensity, depth, and duration. According to these experts, there
are 10 orgasm types for women:
1.
Clitoral
2. Vaginal & cervical
3. G-Spot & AFE zone
4. Urethral
5. Breast/Nipple
6. Mouth
7. Anal
8. Blended/Fusion
9. Zone
10. Fantasy
" According to femaleorgasmsecrets.com,
when a lady has difficulty achieving orgasm these are the highest
reported causes:
28% - She wasn't in the mood
27% - She was too stressed
24% - There was a lack of foreplay
21% - Partner's lack of response
"
According to one study, around 26% of women have consistent trouble
in reaching orgasm, as opposed to only 2.5% of men.
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Less than 8% of ladies have an orgasm during their first intercourse.
"
According to sociologist, Michel Bozon, vaginal penetration orgasms
are more difficult to achieve in the beginning of a relationship.
They become easier to achieve after 5-10 years, and become more
difficult again after a couple has been together for around 15 years.
"
Some experts claim that the opportunity for orgasm may be greater
for the lady if you make love on the 14th day of her menstrual cycle,
when her sex drive is reportedly at its highest.
"
In an online poll at Glamour.com,
women were asked, "Do you need extra stimulation to orgasm?"
1,500 ladies answered as follows:
I need "a hand": 38%
I can do it just from intercourse: 28%
I need oral sex: 21%
Other: 10%
I need a vibrator: 3%
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