I
have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 1 year now.
Don't get me wrong, it was and still is great, but I hadn't
experienced a proper orgasm (if you have to question whether
you've had one, you haven't). I had already had my nipples done
and was extremely pleased with the sensual results, so I decided
to go for a genital piercing. Phil is a good friend so I naturally
went to him. He has started to train me in body piercing, but
I hadn't seen a genital piercing done, so what better way than
to have one done myself!
I made an appointment about 1 month before so I could prepare
myself. I guess that part of the nerves came from revealing
my genitalia to someone other than my boyfriend, and the other
part was obviously the pain.
I had my hair cut just before, but as I sat there getting a
totally new style, all I could think of was the piercing. I
laughed with my boyfriend as we walked to the piercing parlor
just down the road, but I felt a bit sick inside. He could feel
me shaking and he said "are you sure this is something you really
want to do?". I swallowed hard and said"yes, I can't back out
now. If I do I will regret it". He was worried about me, but
I knew he was also worried about our Millennium holiday; if
it all went wrong we may not be able to have sex, and this holiday
was planned partly to have the chance of a dirty week together.
I was hopeful that everything would be ok. He had done an excellent
job with my nipple piercings, which I vow I will never remove
because they are a valuable part of my sex life. We entered
the parlor and I was as ready as I would ever be.
Of course I was nervous but he put me at ease. He made a joke
that if I was so nervous I should get my boyfriend to have his
PA done at the same time, but my boyfriend being nothing like
me was very scared at the idea! He chickened out, but I'll get
him again! Phil suggested I have the clitoris hood done since
there was a risk of loss of sensation with the actual clitoris.
His wife was there too, and she had it done, so she told me
it was really not as bad as I may think. I took his advice since
I did not want to sacrifice my libido for a piercing.
I felt so dumb asking the obvious questions:
"Does
it hurt?"
"No
not really."
"What
does it feel like when you walk?"
"You
won't even know it's there."
"Will
it improve my sex life?"
"It
does for some, and not for others. There's no way of knowing
until you try."
And the all important...."How long do I have to wait before
I can have sex?"
"About
1 week."
"Phew!"
It was cold, but I soon relaxed. He used a local anesthetic
first, and that was probably the most painful part. It burned
for a while, but soon calmed down. He had to keep reapplying
it until he was satisfied I was totally numb. I have never had
a man so intently studying my genitalia before, and it was a
very strange experience! I guess I just tried to keep the conversation
flowing to avoid any awkward silences. There isn't much to say
about the actual piercing because I didn't feel it, but when
he showed it to me I loved it! I couldn't believe it was done.
That night it did sting when the anesthetic wore off, but it
stopped hurting very soon. I was a little shocked at the blood
I saw and I wore loose trousers for a week to stop it getting
agitated. I certainly wasn't as conscious of it being there
as I thought. I got many questions from friends, including the
cliché"did it hurt?". To be honest it didn't, and many
thought I was just being a martyr.
I timed it so that it had a week to heal before my Millennium
holiday with my boyfriend (you know what I mean!). It has provided
some extra sensation but I am a little disappointed. I am still
learning how to stimulate it right, and it's all part of experimentation
I guess. For a while I had to remind my boyfriend to be gentle
with my piercing even if he is rough with my body! It can hurt
if played with too roughly. I am really considering going for
the clitoris piercing, but it's quite a risk to take. I am interested
in the new Princess Albertina piercings, and Phil often likes
to experiment so I may try it.
