Sooner
or later the majority of us learn to achieve an orgasm from masturbatory
activity of some sort or another. Once we find a way of 'getting
off' it can be the easy option to stick with that method all the
time. Though that may be fine if all you want is a surefire orgasm,
'variety is the spice of life', and a few alternative techniques
may just add something to your fun. In this section we have recorded
a whole range of techniques that we have tried or which we have
heard of and think sound practical and fun. Feel free to try any
or all of them, add to them if you want and, of course, let us
have details of your special ways of getting off.
The
simple truth is there are as many different masturbation techniques
as there are women masturbating, and that's more than you might
think!! If you've never tried to masturbate before then I suggest
you begin by using what you have at your fingertips, umm, your
fingertips, before moving onto more advance techniques and spending
your hard cash on sex toys.
Toys are great but I personally think there is no better way to
explore yourself than with your own fingers, after all you expect
your partner to!
Fingers
Most
girls probably first discover masturbation by innocently touching
their genitals with their fingers. Its therefore probably not
surprising that hand and finger stimulation of the vulva and clitoris
is reported to be the most common method of masturbation among
women. It is also the easiest as nothing extra is needed for a
satisfying session. So how to best do it. Nothing is ever as simple
as 'one best way for all' so some real life examples picked up
from various sources is possibly the best way of illustrating
what is involved:
Lying
on the bed facing up with legs together and ankles crossed. Index
finger slipped between the labia majora so that it presses along
the length of the clitoris. Gentle but firm wrist movements to
make the inserted finger rub the clitoris in up and down, side
to side and circular motions. Speed and strength of movement increased
as excitement builds. Sensations increased by squeezing thigh
muscles together at same time as finger rubbing clitoris.
Lying
on back with legs drawn up and knees allowed to flop apart. Palm
of hand placed on pubic mound and fingers allowed to rest on open
vulva. Movement of hand to stimulate clitoris in side to side,
up and down, circular and gentle pinching movements.
Lying
face down on bed with both hands underneath and between legs.
Fingers pressed against vulva and clitoris. Pelvic thrusts to
move the genitals up and down against the fingers.
Sitting
in a comfortable chair with legs well spread. Taking clitoris
between the tips of both index fingers, rolling it around and
pulling back on its hood to get maximum stimulation.
Water
Play.
Who
would have thought that two chemicals, namely hydrogen and oxygen,could
be used to give you as a female pleasure, but it's true there
are more ways to masturbate in water than you might think. Think
bath tub here, think shower and think Jacuzzi/hot tub. All three
can be used to great effect in the wonderful world magic kingdom
of clitorial massage.
Shower
Let's look at the most common technique which involves the use
of that neat little tool, the shower head. The hand held kind
are especially useful for this approach. The first thing you
want to do is adjust the temperature so that it is not too hot
for the sensitive area of the vagina. You can always turn up
the heat once you are accustomed to the temperature. Then find
a comfortable position - either sitting on a seat within the
shower, or lying down in the tub. Shower stalls can be a bit
confining for this form of masturbation, but there is usually
enough room to sit on the floor with your legs bent. I suggest
for the first time that you do this that you not stand. I've
found that when I'm nearing climax that my legs tend to weaken,
and we don't want any unnecessary trips to the emergency room
when you accidentally slip and fall.
Now, take
the shower head and let the water spray over your body, feel
the tingling sensations as it sprays against your breasts. Imagine
the sensations are being created by the hands of your lover
and spray where you want to feel the touch. Slowly make your
way down your torso to your vaginal area. Spreading your legs,
let the water reach up and down the insides of your thighs,
and when your ready for advancing, move it closer to your clit.
Remember that direct contact with your clit may be overpowering,
so try moving the water stream back and forth. Try bringing
it closer, and moving it farther away to cover a larger area.
You
also might note that shower massagers come with many different
settings to adjust the streams of the water - everything from
mist to pulse. Experiment, try them all! Start with the lightest
amount of pressure and work your way up. If you are sitting, you
can always operate the water with one hand, and use the fingers
on the other hand to either stimulate your breasts and nipples,
or you can insert a finger or two and see how that feels.
The
main point is to relax and let your body feel all that is happening
to it. If it feels good, keep doing it. If it's not right, try
sitting in a different position, change the water temperature,
try a different pulse setting anything that makes if feel better.
Bath
Tub
Now we can move onto the bathtub. Like the shower head the bathtub
holds many ways to excite and masturbate. Many women, myself included,
enjoy lying on their backs in their bathtub and allowing the water
from the faucet to wash over their vagina. This isn't always the
easiest of positions to achieve but it can be great fun.
Fill the tub with water about halfway. Lie on your back, and bring
your buttocks up so they are against or almost against the end
of the tub with the faucet. Position your vagina as directly below
the faucet as possible. Adjust the temperature and pressure of
the water flow to your liking; you might have to tilt up your
pelvis to bring your vagina closer to the water flow of the faucet.
It might help to use one or both hands to spread open your labia
(vagina "lips") so the water can flow directly onto
your clitoris. Just one word of warning here, make sure the water
isn't too hot! There is nothing worse that scolding your pussy
and it certainly isn't pleasurable. Once you have found the right
position, lie back, relax, fantasize, and enjoy!
"Occasionally
I bring myself to orgasm in the bathtub. First I excite myself
with fingers, and then I let the water on and get into an acrobatic
position so my vagina is directly under the faucet. I start with
the water warm or cool and at a low pressure on my clitoris. When
I have gotten excited I run the water harder and lift myself closer
to the water and let it pound into my vagina and then I come and
it's the most fantastic feeling."
Another
technique that can be fun involves filling an empty detergent
bottle (one with a nozzle) or shampoo bottle with warm water.
Sit in a full bath tub, ensuring your vulva is at least a couple
of inches under water. Put the nozzle of the bottle as close as
you like to your clitoris and squeeze. After each squeeze the
bottle will spring back into shape, sucking in more water so there
will be no need to stop for a refill.
Jacuzzi/Hot
Tub
If your lucky enough to own a hot tub/Jacuzzi,then the chances
are you're already aware of the wonderful effects that the water
that flows from it's jets can have on your body. I like to begin
by simply relaxing in the tub and allowing the water to wash over
me. At this point I'll open my mind and begin to fantasize, sometimes
touching my breasts, other times just lying back and relaxing.
Once my mind is aroused, I'll turn towards the water jets and
position my vagina clitoris so it's directly in the path of the
flowing water. A word of caution here: Never position yourself
to close to the jet, as the flow of water is normally very strong
from these jets. Begin by placing a fair amount of distance between
yourself and the water jet and then move closer until you discover
a spot that places just the right amount of pressure on your clitoris.
Once you've found the right position, relax and enjoy the soothing
sensation of the water as it washes over your body.
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