The Internet is full of masturbation ideas and
techniques for girls and women to try out for themselves. Unfortunately
many of these ideas are probably little more than male fantasies,
put up by males for their own entertainment, rather than for
our enlightenment. This would not be a problem if the ideas
put on the net were all safe but this is not the case and there
has to be a real danger that someone is going to hurt themselves
if they try to test out some of the things they read. For this
reason we are providing some advice, not on does and don’ts,
as its up to you what you do, but more on the risks and safeguards
you should know about before indulging in some of the suggested
activities.
The
information given is not complete. Someone somewhere will have
put up details of a practice we don’t yet know about and
so by definition we can’t write about its risks. If you
read about any unusual and potentially risky practices please
let us know and we will do our best to hunt out and post any
relevant information for you.
Water
Play
The average tub, shower, and Jacuzzi, and yes, even the
bidet, can be transformed in a place of masturbation bliss!
Many sources describe the pleasure to be had from directing
water jets from showerheads, faucet, Jacuzzis jets, etc at the
genitals. The attraction is that the speed and stream style
of the water can be controlled, which adds to making the experience
more exciting. Provided the jet is directed onto the vulva and
not into the vagina, the water temperature is not too hot or
too cold, and if the water pressure is kept at a comfortable
pressure, the practice is safe and fun. The risks come if these
guidelines are not followed. Water play into which the jets
are directed into the vagina can potentially cause damage and
in some instances can result in a condition called an embolism,
which is often fatal. If the water gets too hot, as can happen
on many showers because someone else turns on a faucet else
where in the house, puts you ate risk for a scalding burn. Lying
under the facet can also add, but again be aware of the potential
water changes in temperature.
"Using
the water massager from the shower, I can control my orgasm
by varying the water pressure on my clit."
"The
water spilling out of the faucet directly on my clit relaxes
me and eventually my orgasm comes in incredible waves."
"I
love the feel of the water streaming from the showerhead onto
my balls as I stroke my cock. I cum harder and faster."
Sex
Toys
Whether you buy your toys from a reliable source, or create
some of your own from things found around the house, sex toys
need to be kept clean and hygienic to prevent infection. Non-rubber
toys can be cleaned in a very weak solution of ordinary household
bleach and water, warm soapy water, or you could use the baby
feeding bottle sterilizing solutions that are available on the
market. Do not ever soak electrical or battery operated items
but instead wipe them with a cloth saturated with the disinfecting
solution. Rubber items, including dildos, gloves, sleeves off
vibrators and even rubber clothing can harbor bacteria, but
chlorine based disinfectants should NOT be used on them as the
rubber can be damaged. Soap solutions that contain bacteria
fighting agents can be used safely. Remember to rinse after
cleaning and dry the item completely before putting away. (Washing
up after masturbating may not sound like fun but it will ensure
your toys are safe and ready for the next time). For more information
on the care and cleaning of sex toys, please refer to the Adult
Toy Section.
"Adding
a vibrator to my masturbation sessions has made my orgasms more
intense and I love the control I have developed in using one."
"I
use an anal vibrator which is held secure in my ass, and while
it buzzes, I stroke my cock. The orgasms couldn't be any better."
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