Written
by: Jenne
There
is so much controversy over this little spot it's hard to know
what to believe sometimes. Discovered in the seventeenth century
by a Dutch anatomist called De Graff it has always been the subject
of mysteries and confusion. The spot itself was given the name
G - spot after the German scientist, Dr Ernst Grafenberg who in
1950 wrote an article describing a spot on the vaginal wall that
could in certain women produce immensely pleasurable and sexually
stimulating sensation. Studies show that all women do have a G
-Spot but that not all experience pleasurable feelings when it
is stimulated. The G Spot is described as the female equalivant
of the the male prostrate.
The G-spot is a small mass of tissue normally no bigger than a
pea that is located approximately two inches from the opening
of the vagina -- midway between the pubic bone and the cervix.
It's exact positioning will vary from women to women though. Finding
your own G- Spot is not always easy unless you sit or squat. It's
much easier to find this little spot with the assistance of a
partner.
Some women will experience the urge to urinate, when light pressure
is first applied to this area. This is normal. If it should happen
try and bear in mind that this feeling will last only for a short
while. One way to feel better about this first sensation is to
urinate before you begin to explore, this way you know that your
bladder is empty.
Try lying on your belly with you hips pointing upwards. Placing
a cushion or pillow beneath your partners hips can make this position
more comfortable. Slowly guide two/three finger inside her vagina
and gently begin to explore her vaginal wall, pressing down lightly
with your fingertips. Before you start to explore please ensure
you partners vagina is well lubricated. Use a warmed lubricant
if necessary.
Another way to explore this area is for the woman to lie on her
back, making sure again that she is comfortable. This time insert
you fingers into her vagina, curving slightly upwards and making
a "come hither" motion. Again make sure that you partner is well
lubricated and as always talk to her.
Please bear in mind at this point not all women are the same.
Some will experience intense sexual pleasure as this spot is stimulated,
others find it uncomfortable. As always let you partner and her
body be your guide.
The G -Spot is often linked to female
ejaculation, which is also something of a mystery. Despite
almost fifty years of speculation and research there are many
area's of human sexuality yet to be fully understood. The female
ejaculation is one of them. There is evidence that these ejaculations
are linked mainly to G-Spot stimulation, just as many women experience
multiple orgasms this way but at the same time if you're not one
of them, don't worry. With all the hype that has surrounded these
subjects over recent years it's all to easy to think that because
you haven't/don't experienced these things you aren't 'Normal'
or that you are somehow missing out.
Remember, every woman is different. Wouldn't life its self be
boring if we were all the same? The same goes for sex in my book.
What would be the fun if you knew how your partner was going to
react every time you touched her/him there. The key to good sex
as always is to communicate with your partner. You aren't abnormal
if having your G-Spot touched makes you squirm for all the wrong
reasons, anymore than a woman who squeals in delight when the
same spot is touched. You are just you!
