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The
female body an object of immense beauty and
an object of
mystery, as well, it seems.
Unfortunately,
for most of us, a womans body is still shrouded in confusion
and mystery. Its no wonder we dont know much about
the female body. Weve been conditioned to have sex in
the dark - under the sheets, so unless weve had a long-term
sexual relationship, we probably dont know too much
about the female body. |
Even being in a long-term relationship where we are comfortable
with each other doesnt guarantee that we know a lot, though.
Most of us have never had the pleasure of really investigating a
womans genitals up close and personal.
I was surprised to learn about the number of men who cannot identify
a clitoris. I was completely shocked when I learned that many women
cannot identify their own clitoris, either! In one study of women,
28% had never even examined their own vulvas in a mirror.
Even medical
science doesnt know a lot about the female body and sexual
response. In the August 22, 2003 edition of 20/20 on ABC, an expert
from an OB/GYN organization said we are practically in the dark
ages when it comes to female sexuality, in terms of what we know
compared to other areas of medicine. She claims on a scale of 1-10
(with 10 being the most), we are at about a 2. We still have a lot
to learn.
Many
people (especially men) hate to admit we dont know something,
especially when it comes to sex. Well, dont be too hard on
yourself. How are we supposed to know this stuff? Where do we really
learn about the female body? Who teaches us? Nobody does! Most of
us men learn about the female body from pictures of naked women
that one of our friends stole from his dads porno stash. But,
what do we really learn? Many of the really important parts of the
vulva are hidden within the fleshy folds - and there are no accompanying
tutorials or anything. Maybe some of us have seen line drawings
in sex education text books that dont look anything like real
vulvas. Others of us gather misinformation from our friends. Nobody
teaches us the real facts about the female body and how to pleasure
it when we are younger because we arent supposed to have sex
or talk about it. Yet one day, we are supposed to just somehow magically
know about all of the different female body parts what they
are called, where they are located, what they do, and how to bring
them pleasure.
And forget
about asking someone for help - once we reach a certain age, our
inquisitiveness becomes a liability. Its no longer cool
to ask questions. Doing so will prove to your friends that you are
not very experienced, out of the loop, a virgin, or an idiot, so
most of us pretend we know it all. We fake it. Well, now is the
time to stop faking it and realize that if you want to learn to
be a great lover to your partner, you have to know the location
and functions of the body parts you are dealing with, whether youre
a man or a woman.
Womens
bodies come in all kinds of wonderful shapes, sizes, colors, and
variations. All are different and can respond differently to the
same stimulation. The following is a bit graphic, but it reinforces
my point about individualism. I read about a study where they took
10 female corpses and dissected them to study sexual nerve endings.
Out of the 10 females, no two were exactly alike. They all had different
numbers and concentrations of nerve endings in the breasts and genital
region. This could explain why although something feels nice and
works for one woman, it isnt a guarantee that all women will
find it equally stimulating. Women arent all made from the
same cookie-cutter mold.
Lets examine the female body parts that are commonly associated
with sexual activity. We wont be discussing internal organs
that are more reproductive in nature rather than sexual, as you
can get that information from any anatomy textbook and it isnt
our focus here. We will take a look at each body part, discover
its purpose, tell you where to find it, tell you what it looks like,
talk about the important facts you need to know about it, and then
discover how to stimulate it, when applicable.
It will
be a fun, educational, and experimental journey. So
let's start that journey and we give you two ways to do that at
Clitical.Com.
You
might like to start by taking a look at some of the close up photo's
we have HERE.
Not all vulva's were created equal and these photo's represent but
a mere selection of the infinite variations.
If
you would like to get a little more interactive then we offer you
a variety of diagrams that can be clicked on so you can identify
the various bits and piece that go to make up the amazing female
body. You'll find those HERE.
Or
why not just try both-))

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