I
hope before you read this article you've taken some time to
read and put into practice the basic flirting tips that can
be found HERE.
Now you're ready to move to a few more advanced tips that are
for the serious flirts amongst us.
Mirror,
mirror on the wall
Mirroring is a great piece of body language and basically all
you do is copy the other persons body language. If they cross
their arms so do you, if they run their hand through their hair,
then follow suit. Just be careful and don't do every single
thing they do or you might end up looking like a monkey in a
zoo. Just imitate some of their gestures and you are sending
out the message that you like them.
Shsssssssh
This is an all time classic when it comes to flirting and so
simple you'll wonder why you never thought of it before. When
your in conversation with someone you like, ask them if you
can share a secret with them. If they give permission learn
forward towards their ear and whisper a sincere compliment.
[ie: I love your dress/pants they look so good on you]
Drop
It
This is older than the Bible, but it's a good old time favorite
that will generally work well if carried off just right. Simply
walk past the person that you like, make eye contact, then smile.
Just as you reach the point where you've passed them drop something,
a book, a purse, or whatever you have in your hand. If they
have any interest in you the likely hood is they will bend down
and help you pick up the item. Enter your perfect opportunity
to start a conversation. -)
Help
Me
This one is a little devious but it's been shown to work many
times in the past. Ask your prospective date to help you out
with something you already know they are interested in. By doing
this you boost their confidence and make them feel comfortable
with you.
Repeat
After Me
By repeating your prospective dates name as part of a conversation
you are sending the message that you are interested in them.
Don't go overboard though. Simply say their name a few times
within your conversation is enough.
Ask
And You Shall Be Given
This is an extremely advanced technique but done right is really
effective and has the ability to make your prospective date
think you were made for them. The trick here is to let them
know that you see something in them that no one else does. To
do that you have to guess how they see themselves inside. This
is generally the opposite to how everyone else perceives them.
As I said this really is an advanced technique and one that
should only be used if your confidence is high as it can lead
to some serious rejection if you get it wrong. Do it right and
they will be eating out of your hand, literally -))
Lead
Don't Follow
At a party be the person that always thinks of the new game
to play. People notice leaders and people who can take charge
in a social setting. Your confidence will show through and confidence
is attractive to many people as we've discussed before.
Head
to Toe
Whether your prospective date is walking towards you or standing
across the room, if you want them to be in no mistake that you
think they look great give them an all over look, from head
to toe before flashing them a great smile.
Over
My Shoulder
Another great move is the over the shoulder look. If your prospective
date is stood behind you, glance over your shoulder and smile
at them. This is a bold and unmistakable move that is a sure
signal that you are interested in getting to know them better.
W.O.O
or Wink Only Once
Winking once and only once is a cute way of showing that your
interested in someone and the chances are you'll send the person
nuts because they will be wondering if you really did wink or
not. Winking more than once gives the game away and you run
the risk of looking like you have something stuck in your eye
too boot.
Use
Props
Props are simply interesting items that you carry with you and
are great for starting conversations. Don;t leave home without
your funny tee-shirt, a magazine, a great hat or anything else
you can think of that might help you strike up that all important
conversation with someone.
It
takes time to learn the above skills and I'm sure there are
many more out there that others use. The above have all been
tried and tested by me as I like to research my articles thoroughly
and I'm basically an incurable flirt.
Now
get out of that chair and go and do something more with the
above because you never know where they might lead until you
try!